PRIORITIZING YOU
- The Virgo Garden
- Jul 25, 2019
- 2 min read
You ever have a fall out with someone and started feeling resentment??? You think about all that you've done for them, all the time you wasted, money you spent, and energy you gave up. You did all of that for them just to end up treating you wrong and you're left feeling unappreciated. You even went out your way to help them or be there for them when you had stuff to do. Shame on them!!! NO...shame on you.
Just because they ask for your time and energy doesn't mean you have to give it to them. Maybe they didn't even ask for it...maybe you voluntarily gave it away because that's how you operate. But what you didn't understand was doing that you were operating against yourself. You gave your power away and now you're hurt, mad, and guarded. Well heal up soldier it was all a lesson for you to take with you and apply.
It's time to prioritize!!! You are the most valuable thing in your life and no one in this world can replace you!!! Put the necessary at the top of the list and let everything else fall in line. Sometimes we need these reminders to help get us back on course. I'm guilty of putting others before myself too. I felt that showing someone that I was there for them at all cost was showing how much I cared about them...but every time I was the one who paid the price.
Your goals, your health, your peace of mind come before any and everything. Sacrificing yourself is like playing Russian Roulette. It's not worth it. Prioritize you!!! (If they love you then they'll understand and if they don't well.........) So, what is the first thing you need to prioritize for your growth???
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